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A 5-day live bootcamp with Tessa · Starts [September 21]

You’ve been the one choosing all along.

In 5 days, learn to choose her, even under stress. You just discovered your Mom Mode. Now build the identity that takes authority over it so you can be the calm, present mom you want to be, wherever you are and whoever you’re with.

Save My Spot · $47

Live [September 21–25] · Replays included · VIP spots available

I see you

You love your family with everything you have.

And you’re ready to change who you become under pressure.

You know the mom you want to be: calm, warm, present, patient. You can picture her. You just can’t seem to reach her consistently when it’s loud, when everyone needs something at once, when the day unravels before 8 a.m.

So you wake up telling yourself, “Today I’ll do better.” And by bedtime, if it went sideways, the quiet thoughts come.

“Why do I keep reacting this way?”
“I’ve read the books, saved the posts, tried the scripts. Why isn’t it sticking?”
“I’m afraid the voice I use on myself is becoming the voice in their heads.”

You’re not broken or powerless. You never were.

The truth this bootcamp is built on

Your Mom Mode was never making you do anything.

Your mode, Nurturer, Protector, Visionary, Intuitive or Champion, is a gift. It’s a real strength that carries your family. Under stress, you’ve been reaching for it on autopilot: gripping for control, disappearing into everyone’s needs, bracing for every threat, going quiet, doing it all.

Not because your mode makes you. Because, in the hardest moments, you haven’t yet realized you get to choose there, too. It’s a fresh place to develop new skills.

You’ve been the author of your thoughts, the creator of your feelings and the one making your choices all along. This bootcamp hands you back the awareness you may have missed: the authority was always yours, even under stress.

Once you see it, you can never unsee it.

Introducing

The Strong Minded Mother Bootcamp

Five days. Live with me. Build the identity that takes authority over your Mom Mode.

This isn’t more tips to save and forget. Over five days, you’ll build something you keep: a clear, spoken identity, your “I am,” and your first real act of authority over the autopilot reaction that’s been running through the hardest moments.

You’ll do it live, in a warm community of moms just like you, with a small daily win you’ll actually finish and feel.

No overwhelm.No homework pileup.

Just the woman you want to be, coming into focus a little more each day.

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Here’s what we’ll build together

Five days. Five real wins.

01

Your Mom Mode Isn’t Who You Are

See your mode clearly: a gift whose reactive version is simply your autopilot move under stress, not your identity. Walk away lighter, knowing you’ve had the authority all along.

02

Meet Her: Your 3 Power Words

Meet the woman you’re becoming and name her in three words. Clarity becomes possible in one small, powerful step.

03

Claim Your “I Am”

Add your Anchor and your Vision, build your complete “I am” statement, then say it out loud. Leave with words you can return to for the rest of your life.

04

Your First Act of Authority

Regulate, then reframe. Settle your body first, choose your response and take your first real act of authority over your mode in a hard moment. This is the “wow, this actually works” day.

05

The Finale Masterclass

Pull it all together, celebrate your wins and see the path to becoming the calm authority in your home for good. This is the most important session of the week. Be there live.

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What you walk away with

This is yours to keep.

Whether or not you ever work with me again.

  • Your Mom Mode, understood: your gift and the autopilot move you’re learning to lead.
  • Your own “I am” statement: three power words, your anchor and your vision, built and spoken.
  • Your first act of authority: a real moment where you stayed her instead of choosing autopilot.
  • A daily practice you can keep and proof that you can be the mom you want to be, starting now.

Choose your experience

Your room is ready.

General admission

Strong Minded Mother

$47

  • Five live coaching sessions with Tessa
  • The Peaches & Pits community
  • A daily Quick Win Challenge
  • The Day 5 Finale Masterclass
  • Replays of every session
Save My Spot · $47
Go VIP

Want time with me, up close?

$97

  • Everything in General admission
  • An exclusive live VIP hot-seat coaching session
  • Personal coaching through your mode, your “I am” and what’s in your way
  • Priority access when you’re ready for what’s next

Limited to [X] spots. If you want to be coached by me directly, this is your room.

Go VIP · $97

Is this for you?

Built for the mom ready to use the power she’s had all along.

This bootcamp is for you if


  • You love your family and you’re ready to own how you show up without turning it into shame.
  • You’re done waiting for your circumstances, kids or spouse to change before you feel like yourself.
  • You want to practice a new way of being through clear daily action.
  • You believe you can become the mom you want to be and you’re ready to do it for yourself.

This probably isn’t for you if


  • You’re looking for scripts to change your kids’ behavior. This is about you.
  • You want someone else to change first.
  • You want a quick fix without showing up and practicing.

A note from Tessa

The authority was mine the whole time.

I remember the first time it hit me that the way I talked to myself sounded exactly like someone I didn’t want to be. “I’m angry. I’m exhausted. I’m drowning.” I loved my son and husband more than my own life, and I still felt out of control in the stress of life.

I’d reach for control, insist on my way, use silent treatments, build stronger “boundaries” and harden my heart until my vision for life became so small there was hardly any light.

What changed everything wasn’t trying harder. It was realizing the authority was mine the whole time. I get to decide who I am in thought, word and action, no matter what’s happening around me. I don’t have to be the biggest thing in the room, nor do I want to be. I get to anchor to something bigger than me and let it carry the how.

I built the Strong Minded Mother Bootcamp to hand you that same truth: fast, warm and real. In five days, you’ll meet her. And you’ll never forget her again.

Tessa
Mom of four & founder of MOMSET

The details

Everything you need to know.

What

The Strong Minded Mother Bootcamp · 5 days live

When

[September 21–25]
[Time + timezone] daily

Where

Online · Community and session links sent after registration

Investment

$47 General · $97 VIP
Early bird ends [September 14]

Save My Spot · $47 Go VIP · $97

Questions, answered

FAQ

I’m so busy. Will I actually be able to keep up?
Yes. Each day is one short session and one small win you can finish in minutes. It’s designed for a mom in any season. The whole point is that you can do this without adding overwhelm. You’ll also have the replays.
What if I can’t make the live sessions?
Come live if you can. That’s where the coaching happens. Every session is also recorded, and the community keeps the momentum going all week.
Will this really work for my situation?
This bootcamp works precisely because it isn’t about your situation. It’s about the one thing that’s always yours: how you choose to show up. That’s what makes it useful no matter what your days look like.
I’ve bought things before and didn’t finish. Why is this different?
It’s five short days with a warm community, live coaching and a win each day. It’s built to be finishable. You won’t be alone with a course you never open. You’ll be in the room with me.
Is this faith-based?
Faith is woven in as faith, not religion. You’ll anchor your identity to something bigger than yourself. That can be God, as it is for me, or however you understand what carries you. All moms are welcome.
What happens after the five days?
You keep everything you built. On Day 5, I’ll share what’s possible next for the moms who want to go all the way. No pressure. Just an open door.

Your invitation

You don’t need an easier season. You need five days to remember she’s already in there.

The way you speak to yourself is becoming the way they speak to themselves. Let’s change the voice together, this week.

Save My Spot · $47 Go VIP · $97

Live [September 21–25] · Replays included · Early bird ends [September 14]